As ladies, we typically ask these questions when it comes to dating someone:
1. is he hot?
2. is he funny?
There’s nothing wrong with wanting a guy who’s cute and funny, but what is most important?
God wants the very best for you and you should want the same. So, use these as a filter when dating and don’t just settle for anybody:
1. He loves Jesus and has a growing relationship with Him.
This is 100%, without a doubt, the most important. If you have to question whether he loves Jesus or not, he probably doesn’t. It should be evident that he loves Jesus through every word he speaks and every action he takes. He can only love you if he loves Jesus first.
2. He’s responsible.
He takes responsibility for his actions and doesn’t blame his mistakes on others.
3. He’s fun.
You love being around him. If even doing your homework together is fun, that’s a good sign.
4. He asks questions.
His favorite topic of discussion isn't himself. He asks questions and genuinely wants to know more about you and your story.
5. He makes an effort.
I’m not just talking about liking your Instagram pictures. It really doesn’t take much effort to double tap your picture. I’m talking about him actually pursuing you just as Jesus pursued you. He takes you out on dates and treats you with kindness and respect.